Relevant for anyone with Sun, Moon, or Ascendant (Rising) in the sign of Virgo
Virgo seeks perfection: in appearance, in intellect, in his portfolio, in his mate, and in himself. He wants to be a saint, and it'd be great if his partner was one as well. Despite this quest for perfection, he isn't one to daydream idealistically...no, he will work, and work hard, towards his goal. Sexually, he must have a clean partner as smells that excite other men may turn him off. If he can't find a partner that fits in with his own internal ethics, he will remain abstinent for extended periods of time. He is pretty picky and will test anyone he is interested in before making any sort of commitment. She has to work just as hard as he does and she has to have intelligence. If she is beautiful, wonderful, if not, well... if he loves her, he will help her to make the most of herself. A relationship with a Virgo male will be practical--no roses or poetry from this man, at least not very often--but he will be glad to help in the garden and with the finances. Once committed, the Virgo will be there when his partner and children need him, serving them quietly and faithfully.
While the male Virgo rarely has stars in his eyes about anything, the female does. When it comes to her partner, she puts him on a pedestal. It's not that she doesn't notice his flaws so much as it is she can find any excuse for them--he was abused as a child, he was born into poverty, etc. In love, the Virgo wants it to work out and she will be determined that it does. She's really not the type of woman to giggle and exclaim about her partners every little successful venture--she isn't excited because she expects her partner to be a success. It's when he fails she may speak up and not very kindly either. It will take quite a few hard knocks before she will admit that you aren't the person she thought you were. Sexually, she must feel appreciated for her hard work and devotion to the family before wanting to indulge. If her partner loves her and treats her with respect and appreciation, she can be just the opposite of the Virgin in the bedroom. A Virgo woman probably has a few tricks she'd love to share with her special mate--Virgo is the sign of service, after all. If she doesn't feel appreciated by her lover, she will stick with it for as long as she can, hoping it will improve. If it looks like a lost cause, she will cut her ties to him and never look back.